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| Exploring Section: February 2008 |
QUOTE-ENCOUNTER OF THE THIRD KIND
Occasionally I take a look at the referrers who link to my site. Today I noticed a link from a certain site and I decided to take a look at it. Normally I would have clicked myself from that website, but something within me directed me to a certain page, somewhere half way, dealing with interpersonal interactions. Without telling you at this stage who said the following words, I was pleasantly surprised while reading this:
(source can be found later in this article, try not to look for it immediately but try to weigh the value of the ideas expressed)
DEREK OGILVIE: THE BABY WHISPERER
In the Netherlands we have a rather popular program in which Derek Ogilvie helps parents who have troubles with their babies and children who are not yet old enough to speak. The way he assists them is by telepathically tuning into the minds of the babies. He gives quite a lot of details on all kinds of matters and often when the parents understand the messages of their offspring they try to change things it leads to a change in behavior of both the parents and the babies. The babies lose their anger or frustration and turn friendly.
For me it is not important to know if he truly tunes into these babies, but I notice the changes that are activated and the results in the baby's behavior. Thinking within the ascension-paradigm I have developed sincere doubts about the idea of helping people. In the sense that 'assisting people' would drain yourself of your chi and energy and it would provide others with your energy whereas they should learn to hold on to their own energy instead.
CONNECT WITHOUT ATTACHMENT
In a recent email correspondence the idea emerged of connecting to other people without forming attachments. I am changing my perspective on the way to interact with other people. Again this change is beautifully expressed by that source that I just stumbled upon:
INTERACTIVE MEMORY ACTIVATION
Thinking in line with the grand-master fragmentation as described in Interpersonal Explorations I want to try and see if I could possibly assist in activating any memories stored within others about our common past. Perhaps I can learn to recognize certain thoughts that I deem 'distorted' and distinguish them from the ones that I consider less harmful.
Am I interfering in other people's lives if I try to assist them in recognizing certain harmless possiblities? If I might identify the 'harmful' thoughtforms (either internally or externally harmful) and decide to focus on the thought-forms that have the best potential of creating change? If I learn to create some sense of confusion in other people, which might stimulate them to think about matters.
In the page called 'Anu-mapcarving' I suggest that true electrical/distorted thoughtform is characterized by inconsistencies, which could be addressed, while also looking for the harmless elements present.
This mode of thinking is rather new for me at this time. Is this a therapeutic approach to social interaction? I wouldn't want to call it that. I would prefer to invest in a mode of interacting with people in which I do not form any attachments, but I do connect with people with the intention to stimulate their positive potentials. I believe a true ascending person should not be afraid of other people, no matter what lineages they hold, no matter what karma they might carry. I would also like to say that naturally I might open myself more for other people who might activate memories within me.
If you have ascended beyond a certain level you should be able to recognize certain modes of harmful behavior and you should have developed a constructive way of dealing with it, without losing your sense of joy. I like the image of the laughing buddha and the idea that the further you ascend the more joy you experience and the less fear you hold within your system.
So much for now, thanks for joining me on this trip, and oh yes, the quotes are from Michael, you know who ;-) (Relationships and your sacred union, 2004)
Gibbon
February 2008